Sunday, March 30, 2008

终于
东西赶完了

可以
睡觉到自然醒哦

想捣蛋我的人应该是不可能了哦

因为电话会关变无声响

可以真正的睡到够

要补充不足的睡眠

晚安哦

Saturday, March 29, 2008

觉得奇怪

上司不批准那个要辞职的人的假期

她回应给上司的语气还真的让我有些反应不过来 (我心想到她是你的上司呢她不批你的假期是没有错的哦你也该给些尊重吧)

她说

无论怎样她都要拿假期

上司反问道

你的东西能如期完成么

她不知怎样去回应上司的话

有些许的听到上司说

东西做不完就该要留下把它完成

而不是特意的星期六留下来

以claimed OT 为前提而完成它

但是

如果是能以claimed OT的方式把东西完成还没有什么话好怨

但是



真的不知该怎样去说好

Friday, March 28, 2008

失声

这些天声音有些不见了

真的有些不自在

或许是HR小妹给的那些Vitamin吧

上司提议到水喝多些

她也发现到我的声音有些不见去了

给上司的回应是

用星期六星期天来休息

希望

星期一上班时

声音应该会好回来吧

这些天

也很乖的放工回家

最迟是十二点到一点前上床睡觉

还有些怕怕

怕自己的生理闹钟又搞怪

Thursday, March 27, 2008

终于做了这个决定
别人怎么说我不理
只要你也一样的肯定
我愿意天涯海角都随你去
我知道一切不容易
我的心一直温习说服自己
最怕你忽然说要放弃
爱真的需要勇气
来面对流言蜚语
只要你一个眼神肯定
我爱你的意义(我的爱就有意义)
我们都需要勇气
去相信会在一起
人潮拥挤我能感觉你
放在我手心你的真心
如果我的坚强任性
会不小心伤害了你
你能不能温柔提醒
我虽然心太急更害怕错过你


突然有感触
觉得这首歌的歌词真的很有意思

有些东西
真的需要勇气去争取才能看到它的回报

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

姑嫂不合

姑嫂真的很难相处么

自己的孩子就当宝贝

但是

嫂嫂的孩子也不是这样给你来虐待的吧

实际的情况不怎么的清楚

但是

听到了些许

有些心疼

两方都有自己的孩子

但是

干吗不能一相等的待遇来照顾呢

小孩又没有惹到你

你还真的有些变态呢

又不见你去虐待自己的孩子呢

变态的女人

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

带着好玩的性质
把妈妈帮我补好拉链的马来服装,Baju Kurung穿来上班
很多人都很惊异
老板还以马来语来对我说早安呢

这件衣服穿了很久
应该是我第一份工作到现在的了

当时买它时是路过一间店
对它的颜色很喜欢
就把它拿来试穿
觉得感觉不错
就买了下来

过后
就时不时的会拿它来穿

不怎么认为有什么不大一样
华人
也是可以有穿不同种族的衣服习惯吧

Monday, March 24, 2008

续早上的老板开炮
过后听HR的小妹说老板跟她道歉说到他不是有心的那么对她发怒

虽然老板是有权对他的下属发怒
还没有看过老板对下属道歉呢

中午
又是老板请午餐了

新来的同事曾经一位空姐对我问了些问题

就如以前我傻愣愣的对我上司发问的问题一样

干吗老板会请吃等等问号在她脑海里晃
我跟她提到这是正常的

如果老板有跟我们同座多数都是他付钱请吃的

傍晚五点多左右
天色开始转暗

以为会上到巴士才下雨呢
但是
天不如人愿
正五点半
雨是下的惊人

伞呢
是让我带回家后忘记带回公司的啦
糊涂跟迷糊真的是我的全能

没有用到它是不会想到它的呢

好在是
我的上司说她会路过bukit batok站
不然我真的是不知该怎样出去搭巴士呢

到站
我家这里只是天黑黑
没有看到一定点的雨水


明天真的要带公司的伞回去
不然
不知还会有那么的幸运么

也该睡觉去了
不然
又起不了身
又有的好追巴士的呢

晚安了哦

To those who are married ... not married ... and soon to be married...

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said,

I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking.
I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping.
I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore.
I just pitied her!With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces.
The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger.
I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table.
I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible.
Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door every morning.
I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd.
No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy.
Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain.
From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms.
She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.
I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work.
I drove alone to the office On the second day, both of us acted much more easily.
She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more.
There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her.

For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning.
This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again.
I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by.
Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning.
She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger.
I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.
To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly.
I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute.
I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway.
Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.
Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...
I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said.
I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce.
My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives,
not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up.
She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife.
The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote,
I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage.

PS:
Nice to share :-)
after i read that I merely tear out
早上又迟起身
天啊
我的生理时钟在干吗啊

又是要赶地铁
赶巴士

神啊
我不要又迟起身啦
不要再捣乱
快把我的生理时钟变会原状

到公司
还来得及买咖啡喝
不然
我真的是一天下来就会是Blur Blur状态

老板心情不好了
全部遭殃
被开骂

不顺心的一天

但是

也是过了一会就会好了
他还算是个不错的老板
至少
他会想方法去跟对方道歉
虽然不是很正面的道歉法

Sunday, March 23, 2008



不知是好还是坏
把客厅的电脑上锁

矛盾

Saturday, March 22, 2008

昨天才提到
自己的生理时钟很听话
会自动的把我叫醒上班

今天
它就开了我一个玩笑

睡到差不多快八点多左右才突然的吓醒
就一团遭的迟到现在才到公司


以后
还是不要那么的乱称赞它
害我人还在恍惚的状态当中还没有吓过来呢

好在是
只有半天的工作时间
不然
真的不知道是否能耐到下班呢

Friday, March 21, 2008

昨天
放工后
跟同事们去KTV

在那边多数点击的歌曲都是老歌
被取笑说
你的年龄都不似像会唱老歌的人

但是
有跟我去唱过的朋友们
就会很肯定的附以道
我是选唱老歌的人

放逐自己四五个小时
不想去想东西
但是
脑海还是有些许不开心的画面出现

到结单时
HR又提议到接场

佩服她的体力
没有人奉陪她的下半场

搭地铁回家了

到家
如常上网潜水晃部落格

下线休息
因为知道自己大概又相似快要打败战的状态了

原本打算九点多起身来把东西赶完
也托个朋友记得打电话来把我叫醒
最终
有看到一个miss called
但是那也是等我起身后很多个小时才发现的了呢

有时
我在想
干吗平时上班的时间
自己的生理闹钟会提醒自己起身

但是
一当没有上班的时间
可以真的很忘我的睡到自然醒
它真的那么的利害么

Thursday, March 20, 2008

快要放工了
明天
是假期
所以
应该是在家里休息
如果没有约会的话

应该可以很肯定的说
是没有计划要出门吧

帮朋友entered the entries yet to finish
And those documents need to be return to them either by Saturday or Sunday
所以可以说是
很肯定的会在家里完成它
那么至少
星期六还有些许的时间可以补充睡眠

昨天
跟个customer asked from payment which their company owing to us

During the conversation
We seem like very close to each other though we chat only few times
Can make until my superior and my HR cant stand with the coversation
we din really chat much about when will the payment will be release to us
because
she dids say before once the cheque ready she will call us and ask us going down to collect no point of keep calling to ask for the payment

waiting for knock off
because later will go KTV with my HR, my superior, purchaser whom going to resign by end of the month

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Sky of Love

一部很感人的电影

但是

不是喜欢它的结果

可以说是

从开头可以哭到结尾

真的很糟糕(害羞ing~)

有几幕我蛮喜欢

很不错的一套电影

如果你喜欢看爱情片子的话
that girl was resigned from my company

her last day will be on early nxt mth

wish that was a good new to us

cos at last need not to counter check the works she done

at the same time

was headache too

cos lack of manpower

Saturday, March 8, 2008

Big supprise for me

Yes

that's really was a big supprise for me

get a letter from my Ms HR

besides me that girl whom i mentioned in my last post who make my superior headche

get a letter too

as for the content of her letter

I dun think that was a good news to her

as for mine

yes

that was really a good new to me

get my confirmation letter at the same time got the salary adjustment too

though i knw there would be an ajustment in the salary

but i cant expecting that much from my current company

at the time Ms HR passed the letter to me

and asked me how am I felt now

I told her that

that's really quite a lot for the adjustment

to my understanding

mostly the adjustment the most can get was around fifty to hundred

that's what i told that HR

she tease me that

since you felt that too much to you

must well you contributed that out

but anyway

that was really a good news to me in this year :)

looking forward for my next goal :-)

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

跟个朋友去看了这套戏

The Lead Year

故事题材还不错

人生如戏

兜兜转转

最后还是回到原点

重点是

在这兜兜转转的当儿

你吸取了怎样的经验

人真的能那么容易的说放就放的么

表面上做的怎么的狠心

但是

当擦肩而过后

那些滋味只有自己明了

Sunday, March 2, 2008

打羽球回到家后

有去躺一两个小时

然后

跟位新认识的朋友

做了个疯狂的事情

我们去East Coast 等看日出

天不如人愿

看不到

她却拍了很多相片

等早上五点半的第一趟巴士

往Bedok MRT前去进食



各自回家

原本想要补眠

但是

为了要还些文件给这位朋友因为她的先生突然逝世

Saturday, March 1, 2008

打羽球

真的很久没有那么大发泄了

羽球

以前有段时间跟朋友约后

才一起去打

身体也因为不怎么的适应

朋友又没有空去预定场地

就那么的停顿了些时间

现在

又再拿起球拍跟这些新认识的朋友一起去打

虽然只是两小时

但是

这次才真正的说是有打到球

上星期

也是被邀约去打球

但是

人数不够

朋友的朋友却预定了两个场地

所有来的的人数却无法FULLY utilise the court

有些浪费